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> I've made friends for life at this company. I've just said this earlier in another comment, but I've never had what I'd consider true friendships come out fr
by folkrav 6y ago
> I've made friends for life at this company.
I've just said this earlier in another comment, but I've never had what I'd consider true friendships come out from work acquaintances. I just don't consider "I have fun with you sometimes" to be friendship, and there's exactly 0 people from all the places I've worked at I would feel comfortable say, calling at 3am if I ever felt depressed. That's friendship in my eyes, and a company retreat would never bring that kind of intimacy that's for me a requirement to actual friendship.
Now there are definitely people I would work with again without hesitation, and I'd grab a drink any time with most of my old colleagues.
- pault 6y agoI’ll give my counter-anecdote. I have made three close friends at work who I frequently talk to about relationship issues, etc, and would happily help them move a couch if they asked. One of them is currently my roommate. I’m 41, so these things can happen as an adult too. It might be different if I had my own family though.