Not at all. I'm aware that it has the potential to put people off, but sometimes you have to shake people up to get the discussion going. There is actually a hu

Not at all. I'm aware that it has the potential to put people off, but sometimes you have to shake people up to get the discussion going. There is actually a huge difference between "forcing people to do something" and merely "asking a question, albeit in a tough way," and people don't really seem to get this difference around here.