I'm sorry if I came over dismissive. I'm sorry for your losses and by no means tried to imply it was a fault of a "deliberate choice" made. Which my comment may

I'm sorry if I came over dismissive. I'm sorry for your losses and by no means tried to imply it was a fault of a "deliberate choice" made. Which my comment may imply. I was trying to say that traffic is dangerous, which your experiences seem to confirm. And that we, as society, somehow, don't push back against, but simply embrace and acknowledge. Every morning that we get into the car to work, again. And again.