My spouse and I talked about this. Quality of life means still willing to be here, able to get more out of it all than it takes from us. We both have agreed t

My spouse and I talked about this. Quality of life means still willing to be here, able to get more out of it all than it takes from us. We both have agreed the other will do the right thing however painful it may be to who ever gets stuck with it first. We do not know what our survivor does. We fear that.