What happened with my dad is that I'm in California, he is in Italy, I managed to do a bunch of stuff to help keep the hospital in our hometown in Italy open at

What happened with my dad is that I'm in California, he is in Italy, I managed to do a bunch of stuff to help keep the hospital in our hometown in Italy open at the very start of the pandemic, and since I don't feel safe flying back to Italy even now, the award was given to my dad. Since it's the same family, everyone over there felt that it was fine. The family vs. individual balance is different between Italy and California.