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I'm certainly not going to live through my life worrying about everything that could happen or go wrong. I've driven without a seatbelt a lot in my life (I once
by spurgu 6y ago
I'm certainly not going to live through my life worrying about everything that could happen or go wrong. I've driven without a seatbelt a lot in my life (I once drove into a ditch at maybe 40-50 km/h without one, not even a scratch - lucky!).
Unless I'm misunderstanding what you're saying I quite disagree with you that death is so much worse than anything else. Why is death so bad? It's the only certainty you actually have in life. There's an average age of death but you're quite unlikely to die at that specific one. It's gonna come either expectedly (like a cancer diagnosis giving you X months to live) or unexpectedly (an accident). Just accept it and stop trying to fight it by trying to minimize the risk since it'll happen anyways. Instead think about whether there are things you want to prepare for those left behind when you do go. And then stop worrying and enjoy the ride while it lasts. It's just a dice roll anyways, try to have fun! Don't hold back. Challenge yourself, face your fears, jump into the unknown. Don't try to follow the recipe for a perfect harm-free life to the book. That sounds like an insanely boring life to me but I suppose YMMV.