This is probably the most stupid advice I can ever give someone so be warned. But for me it went away when I started to work with my laptop actually on my LAP,

This is probably the most stupid advice I can ever give someone so be warned. But for me it went away when I started to work with my laptop actually on my LAP, ut improved tons and just upright in a chair, no table whatsoever. Got a bit of neck pain in return but that was easier to deal with. My current theory is that it my arms were actually resting mostly on my knees with no actual kink in the wrist. the laptop a little further out on the knees tho. I have an air so its already pretty slim. I dont use a mouse. For me the arms where just in total relaxed position this way, but its probably the opposite what people advice :|