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> I would find any older man hanging out with 18-19 year olds sufficiently weird to raise my guards Weird is not a crime and how old is older? In many societi
by vfclists 6y ago
> I would find any older man hanging out with 18-19 year olds sufficiently weird to raise my guards
Weird is not a crime and how old is older?
In many societies including within the US, being with an older man may be seen as providing financial security and stability and is not considered as inherently wrong.
- brnt 6y agoI was specific: I understand the inverse reason and find it more valid and as such don't have nearly the size of a beef with it and therefore didn't mention it. I'm also not saying it's inherently wrong, I'm only saying that I find it sufficiently deep into suspicious territory to raise my guards. And I explained why I think that: because it lowers thresholds for committing abuse. The young person in this scenario is not in the position of power after all.