> Why would you say something to defend the asshole? In your example, you interpreted the same - the guy was an asshole. Why give them a pass? It's exactly thi

> Why would you say something to defend the asshole? In your example, you interpreted the same - the guy was an asshole. Why give them a pass? It's exactly this line of thinking that is so problematic. You assumed that the asshole guy was "getting a pass".