> taking my kids would be a net positive When our kids were very little, my Episcopalian wife said we needed to raise them in a religious tradition "so they'd

> taking my kids would be a net positive When our kids were very little, my Episcopalian wife said we needed to raise them in a religious tradition "so they'd have something to reject when they grow up." So we did; both were baptized (as infants) and confirmed (as teens) at her parish. Fast forward three decades: One now-grown and -married kid is on the vestry (board of directors) of the parish, while the other hasn't darkened the door of any church since he was a teenager, apart from his sister's wedding. (Later I ended up joining as well; see https://www.questioningchristian.com/2005/05/why_i_call_myse.html https://www.questioningchristian.com/2005/05/why_i_call_myse...)