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I think it's more of a different perspective. For example, for the same question "What, you don't want to go to the Nicki Minaj concert?" An introverted respo
by barkingcat 15y ago
I think it's more of a different perspective.
For example, for the same question "What, you don't want to go to the Nicki Minaj concert?"
An introverted response might be "Hey I really like that kind of music - I just don't want to go with a bunch of people I don't know that well, having to coordinate rides, having idle chit chat, etc. So I'll probably go on my own, and if I run into you guys, that's great. But if I don't run into you guys, hope you have a good time there."
In no way does being introverted mean "staying at home and read a book" or not enjoying life, etc.
And the rock climbing example, why couldn't you rock climb on your own? That seems like a stupid question, but my first instinct as an introvert would just be to go tackle a big cliff on my own - cause I don't really want to meet a bunch of macho folks that I don't know - you know, people do climb K2 on their own, even though it's dangerous, it makes the accomplishment even more intense.
I've done 60 km-100km bike rides in the dark, in the middle of the night, on my own - just so I don't have to talk to people - so I kinda know what it feels like.