> an adult must adapt to a very different culture. With lots of cultural clashes… Very true, but human beings can adapt. For example, all the Europeans that ca

> an adult must adapt to a very different culture. With lots of cultural clashes… Very true, but human beings can adapt. For example, all the Europeans that came to America 400-500 years ago are doing quite well today. The culture thing is just a red herring. All you are trying to do is maintain the status quo (nothing wrong with it).