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I have the same issue! When anyone asks me about something I haven't done (or should have done and did), I feel like they won't believe me anyway and go into a
by Razengan 6y ago
I have the same issue! When anyone asks me about something I haven't done (or should have done and did), I feel like they won't believe me anyway and go into a over-defensive/explanatory mode, basically acting like a culprit.
- cutemonster 6y agoHow does that tend to end?
- Razengan 6y agoUsually not in my favor, especially if it's my word against somebody else's.
- cutemonster 6y agoI wonder if there's a way to change how one thinks, to not assume that the other person won't trust what one says, and so avoid getting nervous / acting like a culprit I wonder if thinking "I get paid anyway the same each month, what does it matter if they believe me or not" helps (unless one might get fired)
- Razengan 6y agoYes, not giving a fuck is a good solution to many social anxieties.