Mm, no, I think I agree with your original assessment. You and the top comment both seem correct. (Also, no need to think of it as a shame game. It's more inte

Mm, no, I think I agree with your original assessment. You and the top comment both seem correct. (Also, no need to think of it as a shame game. It's more interesting to learn something.) Let's put it this way. If you're mistaken, then I don't understand it either, so hopefully someone will explain. More concretely, reading the list of how to defend against narcissism, it felt like lots of people tend to have some of these traits, but usually not all of them. If it's a partial match, how should you interpret it? Is there some sort of narcissistic meter that goes up as you accumulate points? It seems hard to define.