As I said above, the quantity of misuse of pronouns isn't really relevant as if you use one (her/him) you would use the same for consistency. So it you misunder

As I said above, the quantity of misuse of pronouns isn't really relevant as if you use one (her/him) you would use the same for consistency. So it you misunderstood and say use Him then of course you'll want to use elsewhere. Having said that, I agree with you that OP may have intended to be mean. I've no idea though - perhaps it's better to be kinder and assume innocency than attacking OP? Or perhaps asking OP to clarify? I'm not sure the down-voting implies an agreement with mis-gendering. To write that says a lot and I don't think many on hackerrews would agree. Either way, would be easier to use the person's name in place of pronouns.