Another experience bin the same vein is if you ask the boss for some help and come review time, they ding you for it. This especially stings if it comes from a

Another experience bin the same vein is if you ask the boss for some help and come review time, they ding you for it. This especially stings if it comes from a team lead because in my mind, the team lead exists to bounce ideas off of and to iron out issues. But if you ever see a team lead or manager dinging you for just reaching out to them, switch teams or quit.