I think your suggestion is good. But knowing people they're going to be pretty diplomatic about their answer as well. Spitting out generic schlips that you alre

I think your suggestion is good. But knowing people they're going to be pretty diplomatic about their answer as well. Spitting out generic schlips that you already know. I guess the best advice is Iron_ball's. Just try to read between the lines, but thinking about it, even that method is a stretch :-(