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> Hint for parents: if your kid never wants to play with classmates and prefers to read, it is not a little geek, it is getting harassed at school. This is the
by sildur 6y ago
> Hint for parents: if your kid never wants to play with classmates and prefers to read, it is not a little geek, it is getting harassed at school.
This is the first time I see the connection presented that way... But I'm not sure if it is really correct. I always thought that geek kids became bullied, because they look different, and people love to make fun of different people (you can see examples all around the media). Not that bullied people became geeks. Do you have more info on that relation?
Anyways, something I can extract for sure is, if my kid is a geek I better make sure he is not being bullied, because it's a possibility.
- Jon_Lowtek 6y agoI very rarely have more info on things i write that start with "For me it seems" ;-) Sorry. By the way the relationship between weirdness and bullying is not my core point, even if i am implying that bullying is a common cause of "social maladjustment" as dragonwriter calls it and warn parents to not idealise and make cute ("little geek") signs of serious social problems. Please do not set that as equal with geekiness in general. My core point is that i consider the implication that there is some entity that intentionally constructs stereotypes, actively promotes their fitness towards fields of research and thereby drives women and normies out a completely ridiculous conspiracy theory. Instead it seems likely to me that weird boys took a very over-proportional interest in computer science because it matches a lot of the other things they had going on in life. I am sorry that i can not cite any studies that measure the resonance effects between weirdness, bullying, social maladjustment, neuroatypicalities, geekness, disabilities, preferred selection of toys, especially electronics and video games, friends and interests at child age, gender and the later chosen field of study.