I want a phone decoupled from google and apple, I don’t care if it runs Linux or vax/vms, as long as it does work, and also does work with my car and other devi

I want a phone decoupled from google and apple, I don’t care if it runs Linux or vax/vms, as long as it does work, and also does work with my car and other devices. Just get me out of this data driven hell, I will pay