"It is as it is" is a better way to say that there is no fucking reason... The Zen/Tolle approach always sounded better to me, but can anyone really say or do

"It is as it is" is a better way to say that there is no fucking reason... The Zen/Tolle approach always sounded better to me, but can anyone really say or do anything that will make the sick one feel better for more than a couple of minutes?