I'd recommend reading Julia Serano's Whipping Girl to start. I'm also happy to explain transness in detail to the cis people I know and trust in real life. Per

I'd recommend reading Julia Serano's Whipping Girl to start. I'm also happy to explain transness in detail to the cis people I know and trust in real life. Perhaps get to know a trans person among your friends, family or coworkers, and build enough of a relationship with them that they trust you. I generally don't do it on internet forums because of the range of responses I've gotten in places like this thread.