> so it should be great all the time right? For me at least, I think most of my "suffering" has come from expectations like this that are incongruent with rea

> so it should be great all the time right? For me at least, I think most of my "suffering" has come from expectations like this that are incongruent with reality. Who said it should be great all the time? I'm right there with you. I have add all sorts of expectations like this in life that when put to the test via my own experience, and the experiences of others, just don't add up.