Did you feel like the person who hated you could have seen the favor as "one upping" them or "showing off"? In the past I've tried to help the co worker but I'm

Did you feel like the person who hated you could have seen the favor as "one upping" them or "showing off"? In the past I've tried to help the co worker but I'm not sure if I was harming or helping the relationship now that I think about it.