Are you familiar with the works of Paul Watzlawick? Especially https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/89200.Pragmatics_of_Human_Communication https://www.goodreads

Are you familiar with the works of Paul Watzlawick? Especially https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/89200.Pragmatics_of_Human_Communication https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/89200.Pragmatics_of_Huma... ? I am asking because your first statement does not seem to adequately explain all the factors which are in play when we communicate.