I like that you went with "It sounds like you're exhausted by that" instead of "Wow, that would make me exhausted too". Because the 2nd one sets a totally diff

I like that you went with "It sounds like you're exhausted by that" instead of "Wow, that would make me exhausted too". Because the 2nd one sets a totally different tone which might be seen as you wanting to stop talking about them and now it's your turn to guide the conversation and make it about you. It's also making a pretty big assumption about them being exhausted in which case you might drop the "too" to get rid of that assumption but you're still trying to sound like you're shifting things to be about you instead of them.