These guys presumably see present ambition and future riches as a net benefit to their dating lives. Also it is easy (if wrong) to take a similar mindset toward

These guys presumably see present ambition and future riches as a net benefit to their dating lives. Also it is easy (if wrong) to take a similar mindset towards intense knowledge work as towards endurance sports: cultivation and display of manly virtue, stamina, prowess, etc. Once trapped in this mindset, it is normal working hours that will seem unhealthy: lazy, weak, entitled, etc.