> I grew up with money. From day one my mother berated me for turning on more lights than I needed in the house, or wasting the last bit of butter on the packet

> I grew up with money. From day one my mother berated me for turning on more lights than I needed in the house, or wasting the last bit of butter on the packet. Our cars were always economy models and I drive a 17 year old car right now - fully bought and paid for by my dad 17 years ago for $15K. It's not a "beater". Why would I invest wealth-creating money on a depreciating asset to replace a perfectly good tool? this isn't an example of being enlightened, frugal, eschewing conspicuous consumption, etc. it's exactly what people mean by the phrase "penny wise, pound foolish". you drive yourself (and presumably others) around in a 17-year-old car when the cost of a brand new one that meets modern crash-safety standards would be nothing to you. the risk/cost tradeoff makes no sense for someone of your (or your family's) means. I would also critique your dad's paying cash for a car when he presumably had great credit, but that's a more debatable point.