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Avoid immature unempathic communications and behaviours: "Lots of trash answers. All of them in fact!" Instead: 1) The Golden Rule: Treat others as you'd your
by loopz 6y ago
Avoid immature unempathic communications and behaviours: "Lots of trash answers. All of them in fact!"
Instead:
1) The Golden Rule: Treat others as you'd yourself want to be treated. This is an ever-evolving loop of growth and learning throughout your life. You are never finished!
2) In job, service, family, nearly everywhere, people respond better to you when your behaviour and communications reflect the same shared goal. What might those goals be. As with #1 this is also a life-long quest.
3) As you gain better responses with people or get to know people better, you might consider asking for information, how to do stuff, help or start leading new initiatives.
At the same time, it is important to realize how the responsibility areas work within your organization, and avoid taking on work that you shouldn't take on!
- koolba 6y ago> The Golden Rule: Treat others as you'd yourself want to be treated. This is an ever-evolving loop of growth and learning throughout your life. You are never finished! I prefer the silver rule: Do not treat others in ways you do not want to be treated Though neither really involves empathy as they’re based on your own feelings of a situation.
- gms7777 6y agoAnd note that the golden rule and its counterpart the silver rule are only a fall back for when you don't have enough information to apply the platinum rule: "Do unto others as they would want done to them"
- pje 6y agoYou may not know what's best for other people! Instead of the Golden Rule, think of it this way: "Ask others how they want to be treated, and then treat them that way."
- loopz 6y agoIt doesn't help when people have no broader vision, plan or clue. I engage people for shared understanding and work instead, but is counter to expectations.
- proc0 6y agoThis is the right attitude but unfortunately I don't think it can be asked straight forward that way. The answer is best attained through listening and observing, but intentionally it's this principle balanced with the golden rule.