I'm ok with unhealthy consumables if people enjoy them, but generally: Food, nice soaps, candles, shows, wine, anything they need from the shops while I'm there

I'm ok with unhealthy consumables if people enjoy them, but generally: Food, nice soaps, candles, shows, wine, anything they need from the shops while I'm there. Small loans without expecting the money back in some cases. It's hard that a day goes by that I don't get something for someone. On the other hand I really hate mandatory gift-giving: Christmas, father's day, valentine's, birthdays. I make the minimum effort I can get away with then.