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Wishing suffering on others is only going to hurt you. People seem to have no problem creating suffering for themselves, no need to wish it on them. As far as s
by baremetal 6y ago
Wishing suffering on others is only going to hurt you. People seem to have no problem creating suffering for themselves, no need to wish it on them. As far as suffering your entire working life, sounds like you need to make some changes in your life. no one is making you suffer except you. regarding working from home: i cant see much reason to make developers go to the office especially after the [total]itarian lock downs, so i salute you on your newfound ethic.
- tharkun__ 6y agoI'm not sure how that's supposed to hurt me to be honest. It's not like I'm trying to make voodoo dolls of them and might poke myself in the finger by accident. But fair enough on being overly dramatic on the wording. It's not like I'm actively trying to make them suffer. I do feel for the other introverts that are more socially inclined and suffering as well. There's many an introvert that is finding out that they are introverts but that it doesn't mean that all personal human contact was bad. Even myself, I miss some of it. In fact, since I'm less drained from being around people all day in the office and during the commute, I feel more need to get out myself and I socialize more on my own time (though it takes different forms thanks to the pandemic than before). Before there was nothing left and I just wanted to be by myself. However, I will maintain that I shed zero tears for the extroverted (especially HR types) people that force stuff on you without any consideration whatsoever. The worst are the ones that try to make you feel bad for being who you are and trying to make you more like them as if that is the only way to be.