The American Dream(TM) If I could have a condo that was as quiet and accessible as a house (buying groceries, whether in person or by delivery, was a huge hass

The American Dream(TM) If I could have a condo that was as quiet and accessible as a house (buying groceries, whether in person or by delivery, was a huge hassle in my SF apartment), with a "backyard" I could reserve for an hour or two of total quiet and privacy, I'd take that over a detached house. But my experience so far in two separate tower buildings was noise, a lack of mutual respect in amenity spaces, frequently breaking elevators, and overcrowding.