I know. We had kids around the same age. In my case my big mistake was moving to US mid way in career. It disrupted by established life and I had to start over

I know. We had kids around the same age. In my case my big mistake was moving to US mid way in career. It disrupted by established life and I had to start over from scratch. If I had stayed in my native country, I would have been able to have kids earlier. Thanks for sharing your experience!