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"Megan spent much of the next three days in her room, trying to concentrate on sensations in her body. Beck sat by her side. “She always had the option to leave
by squidlogic 6y ago
"Megan spent much of the next three days in her room, trying to concentrate on sensations in her body. Beck sat by her side. “She always had the option to leave,” Beck said. “She wanted to stay. She doubled down. She was trying so hard.” According to Beck, Megan told Hin that she felt like she was going crazy. Hin instructed Megan to focus on her breath. During one meeting, Megan had trouble sitting up, so Hin had her lie down. When Megan clenched her fists, Hin told her to focus on the feeling in her hands. “Yanny had no sense of this being anything that she couldn’t teach her way out of,” Beck told me. When Megan got agitated, “the instruction was always the same: close your eyes, go back to meditating.” (Yanny Hin declined to be interviewed for this story.)"
This reminded me of my experience at a crossfit gym. I never once heard the instructors tell anyone to stop going even if they were likely to hurt themselves by continuing.
Sure you can get up and leave the WOD whenever you want, but that social pressure is likely to push adherents beyond what they would normally do. This can be good if nothing goes wrong, but it can also mask preexisting issues or issues that arise from the practice itself.
- seigando 6y agoIt's pretty significant how many people are willing to hurt themselves due to 'social pressure'.
- chacha2 6y agoIf they were to abandon that pressure they might have a much harder time keeping a routine and proper work out.
- seigando 6y agoOr with just a little self understanding and nuance, they could use the groups in the ways that help them, and still maintain healthy boundaries for self-care.
- seigando 6y agoOr with just a little self understanding and nuance, they could use the groups in the ways that help them, and still maintain healthy boundaries for self-care.