I think we're in agreement? I'm saying that regardless, fights for equity are still a fight and therefore forced. I'd also argue they do put a burden on people

I think we're in agreement? I'm saying that regardless, fights for equity are still a fight and therefore forced. I'd also argue they do put a burden on people, though not an unnecessary one, to reevaluate their thinking and world view. Rosa Parks didn't force a white person to give up their seat for her. But she, and others, did force white people to rethink what they took for granted as the status quo.