Why does someone doing something over-the-top mean you can't enjoy doing it normally? Look at how and why people want to be in the USA and look at those things

Why does someone doing something over-the-top mean you can't enjoy doing it normally? Look at how and why people want to be in the USA and look at those things as worth caring about. Try to make your country better for everyone and be happy/proud about your efforts and those of your predecessors.