This was my takeaway. Being engaged, empathetic and kind isn't a "dark pattern", but it's also not something that can be intellectually dismantled and practiced

This was my takeaway. Being engaged, empathetic and kind isn't a "dark pattern", but it's also not something that can be intellectually dismantled and practiced like leetcode. It's interesting seeing how often other humans are considered oppositional problems and "the solution is self-employment"!