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I doubt I’m the only one a bit surprised by this post. Do you live with your partner? How do you split shared or somewhat-shared expenses? Are your incomes equ
by yeahnah22 6y ago
I doubt I’m the only one a bit surprised by this post.
Do you live with your partner? How do you split shared or somewhat-shared expenses? Are your incomes equal? Who has the role of managing expenses? If you go out to dinner, who pays? What if you share a dessert? (.. etc - you get my point.)
I hope you’re willing to expand given your enthusiasm for your lifestyle, but more context will help.
- dgreensp 6y agoI’m not the parent commenter, but, the same thing comes up with friends and housemates. Even married couples who are otherwise “traditional” sometimes keep their finances separate. You each pay rent. If you go on a trip together or buy something for the house, you split the costs. The shared expenses are the easy conversations. If anything, sharing all money obfuscates the harder ones.
- jollofricepeas 6y agoExactly this. We have our own personal accounts and then one shared joint account for things we decide to buy together. When we buy property, we buy it together or if one chooses to buy it alone that’s OK as well. We also have a loose relationship document that we have created and regularly review to discuss things important to us. - death - children - retirement - house chores - parenting - sex - commitments Whatever style of relationship model you have overcommunication and active listening are extremely important especially as it deals with ones feelings, needs and fears. ALWAYS handle tough conversations the same day (preferably) or week to avoid spiraling negativity and resentment.