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This level of knowing oneself is gold. The older you get, the better you get at managing your self and your (sub-optimal, emotional, human) tendencies. When yo
by teekert 6y ago
This level of knowing oneself is gold. The older you get, the better you get at managing your self and your (sub-optimal, emotional, human) tendencies.
When you are young you may think that you can just adapt to anything (I did). But you often can't. You will be lazy, procrastinate, feel like you deserved a relaxing day, get cranky for (un)known reasons, etc. You will have emotions, and they are not rudimentary things you can ignore because the annoy you from time to time. They are you and they need to be listened to and understood.
This is what experience is to me: Getting to know yourself and riding your own waves of enthusiasm and productivity and knowing when to stop and reflect or seek help or when to accept your shortcomings and move on without shedding tears. To know when you are fooling yourself and know that you will get disappointed in yourself and will develop negative emotions and learn how to avoid that by being more realistic about your abilities (and time management skills).
More an more I accept deep down that I won't be the next president or the next Steve Jobs even though my parents told you I could do anything I set my mind to! And I know that that is ok.
- agustif 6y agoGreat insights. > parents told you I could do anything I set my mind to! And I know that that is ok. Well that truism only misses nuance, it's really true you can/could/will do anything you want, If you do believe in free will after all. I would just add the stoicism on internal/external locus of control. IMHO the part parents mostly miss, is you cannot control how others, as in other humans, society, et all, will react to you/your actions/your creations, or if you will even be noticed or not before you're out of the game... Just look at all the bullshit some scientists, artists, businessmen, etc or anyone trying to challenge the status quo, had to go through just for the mere fact that their ideas didn't match those of their time...