I'd even go so far as to say it is the incorrect response. Educate your kid as to what happened and what they can do about it then let your kid figure out how

I'd even go so far as to say it is the incorrect response. Educate your kid as to what happened and what they can do about it then let your kid figure out how they want to respond. If they are going to come across it for the rest of their life they might as well know how to deal with it.