Well its up to us to define these symbols, and make certain that 1) most males would be ok to be identified with them and 2) to make alternatives for those who

Well its up to us to define these symbols, and make certain that 1) most males would be ok to be identified with them and 2) to make alternatives for those who don't. In my experience its more a continum than a binary thing. Why do we need society to be gendered? Very good question. Masculine and Feminine symbols are found in the majority of cultures, because they allow its people to build an identity and act act on it. We are not stone age people anymore, but even 'advanced' western societies have demographic constrains to deal with. I would also note that most biological men are at advantage in situations where physical strength is a factor. I do want the majority of males and females to behave differently in a myriad of situations. Of course I do not think that every symbols should be feminine and masculine, and my goal is not to push some archaic-conservative agenda. However I have lots of doubts about the gender-bender-for-all thing. People kill their kings when they dont know how to kill their gods.