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Women are neither a minority nor disenfranchised. And before someone points to male over-representation in government, maybe think for a moment: whose votes put

• StaticRadio 6y ago
  Lmao you're pathetic, bro. >And before someone points to male over-representation in government, maybe think for a moment: whose votes put those men there? Gee, I wonder why a society that still tells rape victims that they asked for it based on the clothes that they wear tends to favor putting more males in government positions than females? Also, women love to sell out their own gender as well. Why is it only the "soyboy liberal" that bitter, misogynistic men like to whine about 'kowtowing" to "Feminazis"? Plenty of women (especially conservative, religious, and "pick me" women) absolutely love selling out other women. Hell, women slut-shame just as much as men do. And where does most of this shit come from? Jealousy and bitterness, just like racism. >for example abortion control being "male politicians controlling women's bodies", when in reality men's and women's opinions on abortions are extremely similar (in the US, at least). Again, sell outs gonna sell out. Doesn't change the fact that it's predominantly male politicians dictating women's bodies. >Women are neither a minority nor disenfranchised. There's a difference between physical minorities and power minorities. If only taking crusty old sexist racists out of power were as easy as simply outnumbering them. How is it that countries like India were ruled by the British (that they clearly outnumbered) for so long? How is it that a disenfranchised working class is repeatedly ruled over by a much-smaller elite that doesn't care about them? https://courses.lumenlearning.com/cochise-sociology-os/chapter/women-as-a-minority/ https://courses.lumenlearning.com/cochise-sociology-os/chapt... Seriously, facts don't care about your feelings. I can't believe that I actually created an account just to tell you how demonstrably ignorant you are. And I'll bet you that I never even bother posting again. I already regret it.
• PoignardAzur 6y ago
  > Not only is this toxic, it's also counter-productive when we're supposed to pretend that women aren't half of society and thus perfectly capable of contributing to gender roles I never said or implied that. The fact that members of oppressed groups can be bigoted (including against their own group) isn't a novel concept. Yes, women can be sexist against women, and yes, women can be sexist against men. That doesn't mean patriarchy doesn't exist. > And before someone points to male over-representation in government, maybe think for a moment: whose votes put those men there? That's not really convincing. Rich people and families with old money are over-represented in government. And yet we must presume that poor people voted to get them in place too. There are explanations for that (eg maybe rich people can afford expensive schools where they learn to be competent politicians), but overall any system that can select against poor people can select against women too, even if that system is mostly democratic.
  • ZGDUwpqEWpUZ 6y ago
    > The fact that members of oppressed groups can be bigoted (including against their own group) isn't a novel concept. If women are being sexist against men, then men are also an oppressed group. This isn't a novel concept. You're classifying one side as oppressed and the other as oppressor on the basis of a single data point - looking at the very top of society. This would be valid if gender roles were handed down from the top of society, but that's simply not the world you and I live in. Modern gender roles are a much more grass-roots affair and women are perfectly positioned to influence them. Every complaint about gendered toys, for example, implicates women more so than men. When mothers push gender roles on their sons that fathers do not, it is absurd to suggest that there is some self-sustaining system called "patriarchy" (literally "the rule of fathers") at fault. You may deny it, but it is a transparent attempt at denying women's agency and placing the blame on men instead. Frankly, it's boring and at this point I'm comfortable discarding the opinions of anyone who uses the word "patriarchy" outside discussions on religion (i.e. the only context in which gender roles are still top-down). > Rich people and families with old money are over-represented in government. And yet we must presume that poor people voted to get them in place too While wealthier people have advantages in terms of getting into politics, they still have to conform to popular opinion to get elected. Most European countries have strong labour movements that reflect this. I don't deny that men have an advantage getting into politics. I do deny that this single data point is sufficient to prove an oppressor/oppressed relationship between men/women. Gender roles are a trade, and women are active participants.