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>Flirting is the skill of determining if someone is attracted to you, then indicating your attraction to them and communicating that back and forth in a playful
by TheGoldmund 6y ago
>Flirting is the skill of determining if someone is attracted to you, then indicating your attraction to them and communicating that back and forth in a playful manner.
You faultily assume mutual interest. One could have perfect emotional intelligence and still end up "incel" if he does not surpass the choosiness "threshold".
>However, that doesn't mean that you must be handsome. There's a lot more to attractiveness than just appearance.
What's the ratio though? 80% conventional physical attractiveness, 20% situational?
- TheAdamAndChe 6y agoI don't faultily assume mutual interest. Mutual interest is required for successful flirting. Part of learning how to flirt is learning how to detect that modicum of interest from another person, or at least picking up on social cues when an attempted flirt gets rejected. To persist with trying to flirt when there's no positive feedback is what drives uncomfortable, "creepy" interactions. > What's the ratio though? It depends on the woman. Some people care a lot about looks, others don't. Just like men.