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> if there is a problem with someone fitting into the culture, then it is the culture that needs to change. I don't think this is realistic. Suppose I move to
by pmarreck 6y ago
> if there is a problem with someone fitting into the culture, then it is the culture that needs to change.
I don't think this is realistic. Suppose I move to Texas and manage to start working for a company that likes to watch rodeos on weekends and listens to country music all day in the office. Meanwhile, I'm a techno guy who can't stand rodeos nor country music. I start to get irritated with the all-day-country thing, and (as it turns out) work sometimes gets discussed at these rodeos everyone else is going to that I'm missing, so I always end up a little behind where everyone's at regarding work stuff. The rest of the team starts to perceive this as me "not really caring" or whatever, and eventually I get fired due to "lack of fit".
I cannot claim veiled discrimination because I am a white male getting fired by other white males (and perhaps some females, but not 50%).
Do you really expect the entire company to conform to my taste in things? I took race and gender out of the picture here to try to show that this is unrealistic.
> carl is someone i would let go because he is uncooperative.
Honestly it's weird that he was even kept around. Sometimes, people who are willing to butt heads on something are good workers, though.
> if the difference in cultures falls along diversity lines, i would very carefully examine what the actual culture is and make a strong effort to push for a culture change.
I think the best time to do this is at the start, because I also think that after you get above, say, 20 people, the cultural trajectory has already been set and it becomes massively harder to change.
- em-bee 6y agoi don't expect either of you to change your preferences, but i do expect everyone, and in this case you too, to not put so much weight on your personal preferences, and to stop to expect others to conform to them. there is no reason that you could not get along. that part of the culture is what needs to change. everyone needs to be more tolerant of different preferences and interests. in other words the culture of the company needs to change to be more tolerant and you are right of course, the larger the company, the more difficult the change. company culture comes from the top. it is the leaders that need to give good examples. i'd say though that 20 people should still be manageable. as long as everyone knows everyone else. it takes longer and more effort in larger companies