>I have made many many mistakes while flirting and somehow have survived unscathed by whatever you are referring to. Call yourself lucky then. It's of course a

>I have made many many mistakes while flirting and somehow have survived unscathed by whatever you are referring to. Call yourself lucky then. It's of course anecdotal but I have seen both extreme ends of the spectrum. Two, both physically very attractive, friends having ass-grabbing competitions at the club and both taking very attractive women home. On the other hand a shy guy who was pulling all his confidence together and chatting up a girl at the bar, got shot down big time and from then on had the reputation of being a "creeper". If you ask women, they will usually tell they want to be approached neither on the street nor the store, nor library nor public transport. They reinforce that idea by by wearing earphones, only staring at their phones, evading eye-contact. So that leaves bar and clubs, you think? Well. they also do not like to be approached these places because they went to the club/bar for dancing/drinking with their friends.