> So a less misleading headline might be: Couples that refuse relationship counselling have higher divorce rates. But that would surprise noone. Relationship c

> So a less misleading headline might be: Couples that refuse relationship counselling have higher divorce rates. But that would surprise noone. Relationship counseling is delegating responsibility for your relationship to a third party. Or, in most cases, transferring blame for your psychological shortcomings to your spouse via a faux neutral third party. (I don't doubt that there are good counselor, but they are probably even rarer than good psychologists.)