I've been in a very similar situation. Lesson learned: humility. Go take a 9 to 5 somewhere. Anywhere. Doing work you would look down on. Start all the way at

I've been in a very similar situation. Lesson learned: humility. Go take a 9 to 5 somewhere. Anywhere. Doing work you would look down on. Start all the way at the bottom. Save money. Pay off your debt. Deal w/ that first. Chances are if you're smart, a side effect will be that whereever you're working you'll quickly rise to the top and new opportunities will start presenting themselves. But deal w/ the debt first, you'd be amazed at how your outlook on life will change when you're no longer under water. Solve that and everything else will start coming into place.