> According to the philosophy "if I can't do something well I shouldn't do it at all", I should keep my hands clean This is not what I meant. What I mean is i

> According to the philosophy "if I can't do something well I shouldn't do it at all", I should keep my hands clean This is not what I meant. What I mean is if I am going to put effort into something I'm not going to accept being mediocre. There are plenty of things I suck at, and I'm fine with that because I put minimal effort into them. But I won't put 10% effort into 10 things because I know I'll never get good at any of them like that. I'd rather put all my energy into 2-3 things. If I'm to be a parent I want to be able to dedicate a lot of my energy towards it, not just the bare minimum (Which I understand is still a lot).