In the same boat. Another con of waiting is that many people I wish my children could meet (great grandparents, uncles, friends of family) have died. And of cou

In the same boat. Another con of waiting is that many people I wish my children could meet (great grandparents, uncles, friends of family) have died. And of course I and my partner will be dead N years sooner than if I had children at age X - N, which means (at best) less time for grandchildren, or who knows.