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Here's what you need to do. 1 - Practice humility and drop the attitude. Stop feeling sorry for yourself. 2 - Come up with a plan to have a net worth of $0 in
by Duff 15y ago
Here's what you need to do.
1 - Practice humility and drop the attitude. Stop feeling sorry for yourself.
2 - Come up with a plan to have a net worth of $0 in 18-36 months -- owe nobody anything. If that is impossible to conceive of, make sure that you are exploring all avenues -- including bankruptcy.
3 - Get off the couch. Establish social connections. Go to church.
Volunteer somewhere. Join a book club. Work in a coop. Do something.
4 - Build your relationship with your parents. Don't "manage" them. Easier said than done, of course.
5 - Work. Anywhere.
Sorry to sound like an asshole. Live for the present and don't worry about the future until you have fixed some of the stuff going on now.
Print out your post. Your goal shouldn't be starting a company -- on December 8, 2011 you should be able to look back on today and be able to say that life is better, and that you refuse to go backwards again.
- puredemo 15y agoSeriously. What keeps OP from working anywhere with an internet connection? I would see this as a massive opportunity to learn various skillsets.
- jayliew 15y agoI know you mean well, but I have to disagree with your approach. Telling him to "stop" and "drop the attitude" is like telling an drug addict to "stop being such an addict". It does not work. It is a form of a "should statement" (a cognitive distortion) http://daphne.palomar.edu/jtagg/should.htm http://daphne.palomar.edu/jtagg/should.htm In my comment above I listed a book to combat this.
- rwhitman 15y agoOf anything said here THIS is the advice to listen to. He speaks the truth.