You might be surprised how much buying breakfast and listening and also trusting your own heart and boundaries can do. Be vulnerable with him too. I would reco

You might be surprised how much buying breakfast and listening and also trusting your own heart and boundaries can do. Be vulnerable with him too. I would recommend that he gets support to heal his trauma and find himself again. People can heal and change at any age. A men’s group; a good somatic therapist and psychedelics can go a long way. Also, just being a friend, letting him vent and not trying to fix him. See if you can hold space and bring some clarity to what he sees his next steps as. Try to notice where is pain triggers in you your own unhealed parts, and pay attention and be with those feelings instead of trying to “fix” him or push him away to avoid feeling them. Really appreciate your vulnerability and honestly here. If we can help him at TryWithin.com with his trauma, we’d be honored.